If you’ve never been in or witnessed an abusive relationship firsthand, buckle up and hold on tight, this is not going to be pretty to watch. Over the next few weeks, this administration is about to give us a crash course on terror in intimate relationships. And like a woman seeking help from an abuser, the onus of our rescue is on us.
Think of the ex you never want to see again, not even by accident. Not any ex. The Ex. …
We returned home from vacation, to find our 23-year-old cooking teriyaki chicken, vegetables, and steamed rice; in bulk. Dozens of Chinese takeout containers covered our little kitchen. When I asked if they were for sale, his look reminded me who we raised. Of course, he was feeding people for free. Since day one he has loved. His brother excitedly loved him from the moment he found out he would be a big brother. Our youngest arrived, and heartily returned the affection. He is a young man who loves unapologetically, out loud and beyond his years. When he goes through the unimaginable, he loves. A sea of white containers covering our kitchen showed us, love looks like a young cancer survivor, using his resources, to feed anyone in need of a home-cooked meal; no strings attached. …
You call it Christian love, but your religious ancestors were also liars.
Just as missionaries pried stolen babies from Native parents’ arms to teach them a corrupted religion, you do the same thing today. When you excuse this administration’s family separation policies, you ignore vital facts and context. You also carry on the deceptive American tradition of denying your abusive behavior by accusing the victim of causing it. Children in cages at the United States’ border is a direct product of White evangelical support of this administration.
I know evangelicals hate being accused of the truth. Thankfully, Christianity is not about absolving yourself of responsibility or consequences, even though that has been the way white Americans have used it since 1619. No matter how you resist it, your history is one of human theft and deflection of blame as a white evangelical. …
I’m not interested in the words that exit your mouth poisonous and dry trying to dehydrate & execute my dreams.
I have no interest in procreating the lies that stain and steal
No replayin' what truth denies, the very garbage that hinders my hopes & prayers
I’m not interested in whom or who did what to whom; in spreading gossip or calling girls loose
I’m not interested in reliving who meant me harm
Living life out of others’ needs
Sitting back contemplating about whose position may soon open. Who’s got time for hoping...and...hoping -- another’s sin is exposed or to wonder why they turned their nose?
Gayle King responded that the clip with her and Lisa Leslie discussing Kobe’s past was taken out of context. She stated the question came up during an interview that veered into side conversations on various topics. When I saw the clip, I didn’t like it and it pissed me off. But even if it wasn’t out of context, and she had doubled down, no one has the right to do what Snoop started.
He represents a segment of Black men who are quick to throw black women away and threaten violence as a first resort for any perceived misstep by Balck women. Period. Snoop’s behavior threatened Gayle, and by proxy, black women like a mob. The message? Get out of line or challenge black men on anything and it is open season. And let’s not pretend Snoop would have directed the same threats at his favorite felon baking bestie. For a number of reasons, he would not dare risk calling her out, like this if she had been the one who brought up Kobe’s past. This level of vitriol is generally reserved for black women specifically. …
Since 1996 we have taken in more than 20 different people. Including my mother, a couple of brothers-in-law, a sister, a best friend’s son, and a family with 10 kids. We’ve picked up and safely delivered numerous teenagers who were in a bind in the middle of the night and terrified to call their parent without a trusted adult. We’ve crossed the nation at least three times for someone else’s emergency. Counseled at least a dozen couples, been responsible for two people on probation. …
Waited a lifetime for its up’s and downs –heartache and doubt;
Leaving and telling lies, while hoping to experience my last
It took a lifetime of experience & numerous mistakes. Our true mission through that valley of the unworthy
Grateful and indifferent expectations of perfection
by me? of me. Yea and them.
Hindering my last…
Fear near lost the chance for it
failures and the trials lived through witnessed and committed
Distorting my lens perspective causing me not to see it coming
My truly last And
Anger nearly killed any hope of it. …